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True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
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. Fenfen .24 yrs old .[ currently ]
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Wednesday, September 28, 2005
or rather, wat is true happiness? many ppl spend their whole life searching for it. some feels that money is their true happiness, some feels that being w e one they love is their true happiness. but nowadays, ppl seem to wan much more. they wan financial security, comfort, love... and they spend their whole life searching for the perfect someone who can provide them with all and more. the ppl now are so different from the past generation. the old saying of "嫁鸡随鸡"doesnt seem to be applicable anymore.
what is my true happiness? I think true happiness is to be able to be with someone who really understand u and even more imptly, ur needs. As my mum always told me, communication is a very very impt criteria when it comes to choosing ur life partner. and then u have to ask urself, whether u r able to accept that man as what he is. becos as the saying goes, a leopard can neva change his spots, a man cant change himself to suit u too. i think it is very impt to b able to communicate and understand him more wholely, before the start of every relationship. Also, the sense of security is very impt to a woman. not only the sense of financial security u noe, but emotional security.. it is really terrible to me, as a woman, if i have to worry abt my man everyday abt whether or not he's having an affair. Not to this extreme lah, but u get wat i mean? yup, although it's impt to trust each other, but women still have their fear.. so how a man treats her woman is an impt factor to make her feel secure. for me, i juz wan to feel special. well, which woman doesnt??
dun mean to sound like a lecture here. juz that never really pen down my thots be4 so it's a good feeling to be able to write down ur thots and not being so dark abt it.. mayb many women out there dun really agreed w me so dun get offended when i say true happiness lie w the man u end up w.. cos mayb im a xiao nv ren ('little' woman) thats all.. =)
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